Here I Go Again is Right!

Hey there everyone! I created this blog for a number of reasons, the first being to document my trials, tribulations, and triumphs of being a parent with Spina Bifida in a world where adaptation is a way of life for me. The second reason being that not only am I a physically disabled mother of a very active 2-year-old little girl , but I'm also a military spouse whose husband has been deployed for 12 out of the last 24 months. Being a military spouse in itself presents me opportunities to show my independence, but also to share my experiences with the world...at least those of you who read this blog.

My life hasn't always been easy, but then again...no one's ever is. That's just life! When life gives you lemons, you make lemonade. The purpose of this blog to let other parents with physical disabilities and other military spouses know that they are not alone in their daily struggles.

To date my husband and I have moved 6 times (soon to be 7) in the past 3 years with the U.S. Navy. My biggest move is coming in about 4 weeks, and I'll be honest I'm a little nervous, but I'm also incredibly excited to move on with my life. Currently, I am living with my parents in IN so I'm sure you understand the importance of "getting on with my life." Now, you may have noticed that I said, "MY" biggest move, that's because my husband is currently on deployment in the sandbox of Iraq, and will not yet be home when it comes time to move, therefore, I will be moving alone with my 2-year-old daughter (We'll call her "sweetie" for privacy purposes) to the other side of the country to a place called Port Hueneme, California.

This move is going to be the best yet, as the base where we are currently stationed is about 25 south of Malibu, California and has all the luxuries of big city life, while still being in a small town. The way I see it, that's the best of both worlds. As a physically disabled parent and being "pseudo single" during this deployment, this move, if I let it, could be a big deal for me and my family. BUT I have made it as simple as possible. I have arranged everything down to the last detail with careful precision so as to make this the easiest move yet. After all, that's what is asked of a parent with a physical disability. The must always possess the foresight to think of solutions to any problem that could arise ahead of time.

As of Monday, I will be getting my things ready for the seventh time in 3-years for the military to come to my house, pack my things, and then haul them off...not to be seen again until I reach my next destination in California. They won't actually be taking my things until Wednesday, but there is so much preparation that comes with a move, especially a military move. Afterall, you are trusting these people with your belongings. I'll keep you "posted" on how this all goes.

Until we meet again!!!!!!!